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Thursday, March 13, 2008

I BELEIVE IN ME

If u cant be a highway
be a trail
If u cant be a sun
Be a star
Its not by size
that u win or fail
be the best of what you are
- Anonymous
Beleiving in one's self is having self confidence. Self confidence is conceiving the plan, knowing you can do it and actually doing it. Self confidence is all about giving yourself great worth. Understanding who you are and what you are made to be and to achieve. Self confidence means trading your fears for successes.
Henry Ford said " whether you think you can or you can't, you are ususally right". Your way of thinking has a diverse effect on your confidence. When you think " I cannot do this" then you already have the conviction that you can never do it and it will only take a miracle for you to get there. When you actually try to do it, you end up failing because you have already convinced yourself of not being able to do it.
On the other hand, when you beleive that you can do it, and have the conviction to try and try again until you hold the winning card, then you just might get there. The greatest pleasure inlife is actually getting to the stage that people beleive that you can never get to in life.. It only takes a little criticism to deflate a person's self confidence. Acting positively on criticisms is the only way to overcome this.
Self confidence is often triggered off from the thought process. What you think that you can do and how much you think you can achieve can adversely affect performance in life.
Self confidence is the way you dress. Many say that it is the way you dress that you are adressed. Dressing up to suit different occasions, seasons and environments makes you fit in better.
Self confidence is who you associate with. who are your friends? how do they influence you? positively or negatively? Do they keep laughing at every new idea that you have? Do they motivate u.
Self confidence is knowing God's purpose for your life. What do you think God wants you to achieve in life. Obviously God wants you to succeed. So go out there and make it happen.

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